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Mikaella Clements is an Australian writer currently based in Berlin. Her work has appeared When I moved to Berlin I saw queer women everywhere. They passed me on the street at night, they leant up against the same Chaujcey at U-Bahn stations.

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Once I stumbled out, almost breathless, dizzy from the way a woman had been watching me, while my straight friend chattered on beside me, oblivious to the entire exchange.

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Cruising—the act of going out Porno free Gallatin public to look for sexual partners, usually for brief or anonymous encounters—has a long history and runs as a bright, dangerous thread through gay literature. Its purposes are manifold, seeking not only sex but partnership, community, and identity.

In Gay New YorkGeorge Chauncey, writing about the early gay scene in the city from toexplains that well-known cruising areas offered the chance to find sexual partners and Women looking for sex in Chauncey with other gay men. In an interview with The Guardianauthor Garth Greenwell argued that modern cruising still offers vital connections and support: It was the first gay community I found in the pre-global internet in Louisville, Kentucky, where I grew up.

Cruising and literature are inherently linked: Unsurprising, then, that so much of gay literature is interested in the politics and romances of cruising. Misunderstandings were almost unknown.

Any uncertainty in a boy I wanted was usually overcome by the simple insistence of my look. Berlin, of course, has long been home to cruising both real and fictional. But clearly, these books were lacking the very thing that had driven me to them: I Chajncey a limited but comprehensive sample: I came up with a bare collection of disparate threads, not enough to fill even one Hollinghurst Women looking for sex in Chauncey.

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Audre Lorde refers to cruising throughout her memoir Zami: A New ,ooking of My Namebut she means picking women up Women looking for sex in Chauncey gay bars, not quite the same as a public search, Sex services Barnstable alone public sex. Woolf keeps her doors firmly closed.

Despite being gay herself, Nan engages in sex work with men while disguised as a boy, drawn by a sense of power rather than any sexual Woemn. But she is still not truly seenin that crucial visual realm where cruising operates best: Nan protests, aware that her boy-guise will fall apart when working with a woman, then confesses:. The end of the cigarette disappeared: I heard her give one impatient sigh—and all at once I understood.

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The moment of desire is electric. Though the strange woman is Womeen and the relationship will quickly turn abusive, the act of being seen, recognised, and solicited as yourself is an overwhelming one for Nan: Berlin is a good city for queer women; it is a good city for most queer people.

The lesbian community in Berlin grew up alongside the gay Chaincey there was even, ina guide to lesbian bars called Berlins lesbische Frauen. Berlin began to be known once more as a safe r space for queer people.

And Berlin has a rare determination to preserve queer women and lesbian culture, rather than allowing it to be subsumed under the larger umbrella of gay male culture. There are bars in Berlin that are still exclusively meant for queer women; there are hundreds of private-public spaces designed for us, from parties to community organisations to sex clubs.

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Sometimes it feels like a city built for dykes, and through my first months here I watched us watching each other, whether topless on the lake shores in August or bundled under coats in the deep cold of January.

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Me and my mates have been going for years, but no one ever has sex there or nearby. I wanted a revelation or discovery: I wanted something new.

It is this threat of violence that makes the ugly, obvious truth plain. The oppression levered against queer women is one of violent control: And even now, to be a woman in public is to be harassed—catcalled or followed home, leered at or abused. The threat of violence is inseparable from the idea of lesbian cruising.

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Of course, gay men too, and particularly men of colour, face public violence and control. Cruising is never safe.

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The books that explore gay cruising dwell, as men do in real life, on Greencastle-IN adult personals dangers inherent in the act. Out of the theoretical space of literature, cruising is even more fraught, and homophobic violence is an everyday reality. But cities were never built for women, let alone queer women, much as I want to claim Berlin.

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Straight readers would not even notice the wink that the text offers. He is not the object which the sign is hailing.

Women in public are never completely safe; queer women are doubly unsafe; queer women having sex in public run great and terrible risks. But there is still something vicious and triumphant in what we can wrest out of the streets when we try.

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A look that burns like sez touch. She is currently working on her first novel, a literary rom-com co-written with her wife. View the discussion thread. Skip to main content. Looking for Women By Mikaella Clements. The Swimming Pool Library. Written by Alan Hollinghurst.

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Written by Rita Mae Brown. Written by Virginia Woolf. Image by Knautschke via Wikimedia.

We were out there to be looked at. Nan protests, aware that her boy-guise will fall apart when working with a woman, then confesses: I took a breath, and leaned into the dark interior of the coach.